Avery's Birth Story

Update before bed....Avery is here! She's beautiful and a wonderful baby! She is 6lbs 13oz and 19 inches long. She's already nursing like a champ and wouldn't take her eyes off her big brother. We are so smitten!

We left off yesterday right after I had the epidural and I was a happy camper! About 30 minutes later, things changed! The side effects of the epidural kicked in and it quickly became evident that I should have not had the epidural. I vomited uncontrollably, shook like I was having a seizure and then my body went weak and numb. I couldn't even open my eyes. My blood pressure dropped so I spent the next 3 hours sniffing alcohol swabs. Unfortunately, at this time, I was begging for a c-section but the doctors thought I should stick it out. At 3am, I had manged to fall asleep and the doctors and nurses ran in, and wheeled me to the OR while telling me Avery's heart rate was no longer strong since my blood pressure was so low.

When we got to the OR, the plan was to give me a spinal then let Daniel come in. The doctors put a mask on my face and told me to count backwards from 10. I made it to 0 and was still wide awake. Unfortunately, my epidural wasn't spaced very well (I still felt most contractions mildly after I'd gotten it) so they couldn't use it to give me a spinal. The decision was made to put me all the way under. Avery was delivered and was perfect from the start. Because I had a fever, she was taken to the newborn nursery and given an IV that she'll have for 2 days for antibiotics.

This is where things took a turn for me. The doctors couldn't get me to stop bleeding. Daniel was notified and made the decision to do a hysterectomy if they couldn't get me to stop bleeding as I was quickly bleeding out. Thankfully, they stopped the bleeding just in time to land me in the ICU but not need a hysterectomy (which at this point, I wouldn't have cared that much because we are DONE with 2 kids after 2 traumatic births!) I woke up in the ICU with an IV in both hands, a central line in my neck and a drainage bulb coming out of my c-section wound. The right hand (maternity unit) and the left hand (ICU) did a poor job of communicating and both thought the other had given me pain meds. WRONG! At noon, they finally rectified this with some demerol in my arm as I was wheeled out of the ICU to see my baby girl!

The postpartum nurses felt so bad for me that they gave me a nice suite and have been WONDERFUL ever since! They've been on top of pain meds and complete dolls to Avery. I'm already up and walking a bit and can now get myself out of bed alone which is way sooner than I did with Parker so hopefully I'll recover faster!

Speaking of Parker, he came to visit today and it went 100x better than I thought it would! He LOVED his sister and wanted to hold her constantly. He called her "baby" and petted her head so softly. I was a proud mama!

Avery took to nursing like a champ! We are just through the moon with her! Daniel keeps saying "she's so easy!" "She doesn't cry!" All that will change soon but we're savoring these quiet, sweet moments! Daniel changed her diaper today and we caught it on tape. I'm SOOO glad we did. Parker watched intently as she pooped while daddy was wiping her. haha. His facial expression was worth a million bucks!

We got a few family photos of the kids in their matching outfits. So precious! My mom is going to have to bring Avery different clothes because I packed her all long sleeve cotton items but her IV in her forearm makes it so she can't wear anything but short sleeve outfits or onesies. She doesn't have bow ready hair but that's why I came prepared with headbands too which was precious! Daddy wasn't super thrilled that I put a bow bigger than her head on it but he'll get over it!

Sorry for the long and detailed post but since this is "Avery's baby book" once I have the blog printed, I wanted to make sure to document everything I could remember. PLUS.... PICTURES! We haven't taken many but here are a few!

Going to the hospital

Avery's 1st picture

Happy Big Brother reaching out to hold "his baby"

Our family of 4!!!

New Woman

OH MY GOSH.... I feel like a new woman. From 6-7:30 I didn't want to be touched or talked to which is so "un-Taylor." As I watched Daniel sit in the corner facing the wall eating a Pizza Hut pizza, I cried and breathed... no fun... so I gave up (sorry natural mamas). I'm a whooping 2 cm dilated at this point and the thought of doing this ALL NIGHT when I've been contracting since 6pm yesterday was simply unbearable. I felt defeated...until the epidural took effect. And now I feel like a sleepy rock star.

I figured I'd write a quick update as I'm planning to fall asleep to American Idol for a bit since the doctor thinks we're going to have a middle of the night, cinco de mayo baby. That's what I get for craving margaritas this whole pregnancy right? I see many donkey pinatas in our future birthday parties. haha (not really... until she's in college and it's her prerogative to beat a donkey with a stick... oh goodness.... my daughter's birthday will be quite the celebration!) Unfortunately, this messes up our 5/4/3/2/1 birthday order (May 4th and March 21st) BUT.... Miss Avery clearly had different plans. A stubborn Diva from birth. This confirms my belief that she's a fiery red head. I should start praying now, shouldn't I?!

Water Broke

At 11:00 Dr Taylor tried (again) to strip the membranes...unsuccessfully and rather unenjoyably. I got super bummed since the pitocin is causing frequently contractions but isn't moving the baby. He said we'd try a while longer and then he may send me home until next week. I was not a happy camper.

I sent Daniel to get himself lunch and eat it out of my sight at 11:45. I rolled to my side to rest and when the nurse knocked on the door, it startled me and broke my water! YIPPEE!!!!!!!!!! SOO... now we're here to stay! Hopefully the pitocin (which is maxed out already) starts to do it's job. I'm feeling the contractions but they aren't strong enough to need meds for. Honestly, I'm kinda bored. haha. Such a waiting game! I should have brought a book as daytime TV is proving less than entertaining! I don't think my TV is normally off Curious George, Barney or Thomas the Train until 8pm so I forgot that nothing but CRAP is on during the day!

So the good news is....water broke (odd sensation, right ladies?)
Bad news: Contractions aren't moving Avery like we'd hoped
Good news: We won't be leaving the hospital without her
Bad news: She may be born via c-section if things don't pick up
Good news: She'll be here within 24 hours either way! :)

Lets get this show on the road!

I slept pretty well last night... better life through chemistry! :) Love me some Ambien! I slept from 11 to 3 and 3:15 to 5. Not terrible considering where I am, how many cords I'm strapped to and the machine's constant noises. I had mild contractions all throughout the night, some of which were mildly painful but I could still talk through them. At 5am, I got up, took a nice shower, did my hair and make-up (very important!) and ate a banana. I am sad to report I forgot my hot rollers but... no worries... I did remember a headband.

At 7:30 the doctor came in, checked me and said I'd made a small amount of progress but they had hoped for more. SO, I'm back on the pitocin and they'll start increasing it every 40 minutes. Hopefully it starts to work! He "weakened my membranes" and plans to fully strip them if necessary after he performs a c-section at 9am. While that was somewhat less than enjoyable, I am glad he did that because it means we're here to stay. One way or another, Miss Avery should be here before my doctor leaves at 7am tomorrow as he won't let me go past that unless I'm making great progress all of the sudden at the end. YAY! We're ready!... or should I say, I'm ready! Daniel is currently taking a bubble bath in the huge jacuzzi tub while listening to some Tolkien book on tape. I tried to tell him that babies are born in that giant tub but he's convinced it's also for husband's to relax while wives are in labor/blogging. More later!

In the Hospital!!

We're officially admitted and relaxing in our gigantic maternity suite. This place it N-I-C-E. The IV has been started (OWIE!) and the low dose pitocin started at about 6:15. Before the pit started, we noticed I was already having contractions but they weren't super strong. In the 30 or so minutes that its been running, we can already tell a major difference so it seems to be working. YAY!!!!

The TV selection is less than impressive but I now feel quite up to date on the death of Osama Bin Laden! Thankfully, Daniel brought quite a few movies and we plan to start one next. Tonight is like a vacation in a hotel (minus the painful IV... I may need to have them check it.... seriously ouch). More updates to come tomorrow!

Parker update: he's at Barney Live with my mom. He's apparently clapping and waiving to Barney with his light star nana bought him. I'm so glad it was a hit! I wish I could be there to witness his excitement but in the hospital having Avery is definitely the only other place in the world I'd rather be!

"The Plan"

Well... technically, it's Tuesday, May 3rd! The day your induction begins! (It's 12:20am...mama's up doing last minute monogramming! haha) Heaven forbid your pink and cream minky blanket (that matches your brother's blue and cream minky baby blanket...until I washed his with a red sheet and turned it salmon) not have your name on it!

Here's the deal, Lucille.... the plan is to head to the doctor for a 3:10pm appointment. Daddy is coming to that appointment and I'm really excited about that. After that, we believe we'll go grab a quick and bland dinner then head to the hospital to start your induction slowly overnight! Texting/emailing everyone all of your updates would be quite a lot on your dad and I so I'm going to try to keep the blog updated. I don't want to bombard facebook with updates and since this is your "baby book" per say, we'll use this to keep everyone updated on how it's going.

So, friends.... if you want to follow Avery's progress into the world, check this blog Tuesday/Wednesday for updates! That way, those who don't care to know the details don't have to read them on facebook. :)

Check back later for a post from the hospital! YAY!!!!!!!! SO excited!

Fully Baked!

How far along: 38 weeks 3 day.Mommy has been a bad blogger BUT it's only because I've been a busy bee preparing for you! We head to the hospital Tuesday night to start the induction process and you should be here sometime Wednesday! (please come before Thursday. I'd love for your birthday to NOT be cinco de Mayo. That would cause mommy anxiety when you're in college)

Maternity clothes: Lately I've been loving my tennis skirt with a maternity tank. Today I wore maternity bermuda shorts and a ruched tee. I felt kinda cute to be honest and I LOVED when people would ask "when are you due?" It is so fun to say "Wednesday!"

Sleep: I get super tired at 8pm. If I fall asleep, I wake up 2-3 times a night. If I don't go to bed when I'm tired at 8pm, I eat something terrible for me (cheesecake and popsicles tonight) and then I catch a very long 2nd wind that I regret the next day.

Best moment this week: We had a wonderful last weekend as a family of 3! Carolina Cones, boat ride, TCBY, great weather, shopping.... loved it!

Movement : Yes and it's painful. You are sitting on a nerve that makes me gasp when you hit it.

Cravings: I've lost my appetite but I'm still enjoying popsicles and frozen strawberry lemonade.

Gender: GIRL! Avery Madison Wise!

Labor Signs :You've dropped nice and low according to the doctor! I've had random contractions but I'm pretty sure you'd stay in to 42 weeks if the doctor's would let you.

Belly Button in our out? Grossly out. Parker keeps trying to push it in.

What I miss : Not being in pain... I'd like my body back!

 

What am I looking forward to? Holding you! Kissing you! Having your newborn photos taken! Asking to take you back from every person that tries to hold you after 3 minutes. Putting you in your MamaRoo (I'm pretty jealous... that thing looks awesome), using our Moby Wrap. Dressing you up.... all the things I've bought/been preparing for! I'm so ready to use and see you in!

 

SO... lately I've gotten the question "why are you being induced? She should come in her own time" I figured I'd address it. Yes.... she (you) would come in her own time BUT since I had a C-section with Parker, most doctors automatically would c-section me again. I do not want a c-section again if I don't have to have one. It would be a longer recovery and I really want to experience a more natural/less surgical birth...call me crazy.  SO... my particular OB (in a large practice) feels most comfortable with me having a VBAC while other doctors will not allow me to. THUS... I chose to schedule an induction on the day he will be the doctor as opposed to scheduling a c-section or waiting for her to come "on her own" and risk having one of the doctors who is not comfortable with a VBAC. Make sense? Fingers crossed "our plan" goes as planned! Either way, God's plan is perfect and she'll be here in His timing and manner and I'll get over "what I want" when I've got her in my arms!

Here are the only 2 pictures I could find of "us" this week and you aren't promeninet in either of them! Don't worry! I promise I'll get one tomorrow or Tuesday! DEFINITELY before we have you we'll take a "going to the hospital picture" in which you will be the star! Once you arrive, then I will begin taking obnoxious amounts of pictures of you and posting them!

You are SOOO loved and we can't wait to meet you!!!!